Blame Her Ranch

Blame Her Ranch

Award-Winning Venue

Blame Her Ranch (BHR) was voted the Best Venue in New Mexico by Destination Wedding and Honeymoon Abroad Magazine and received the Couple Choice Award 2020 from Wedding Wire. But what makes us truly special?

A Unique and Personal Experience

BHR is not just a venue—it’s the home of Steve and Linda Blamer. After hosting their daughter’s wedding in 2017, multiple vendors encouraged them to rent the ranch for other events, and since then, they have loved welcoming couples into their home.

Spacious Accommodations

Unlike traditional venues, BHR sleeps over 44 guests, allowing your entire wedding party to stay together for the weekend.

Four Stunning Venue Spaces

We offer four indoor and outdoor venues for your rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, or cocktail hour. This built-in weather backup ensures your event runs smoothly—without additional fees.

Luxury Accommodations & Glamping

BHR features top-tier lodging, including a main lodge and barn, plus unique glamping options:

• Two Conestoga Wagons
• An Authentic Tipi
• Two Airstream Bambis

Each comes with luxury furnishings, linens, and décor for a comfortable and unforgettable stay.

World-Class Amenities

Before your big day, enjoy:

• A cliff-front sunset patio with day beds, seating, and a fire feature
• A custom-made pool
• A cliff-front sauna & cauldron hot tub
• A gym with Peloton equipment
• Over 2,000 acres of scenic land and access to Santa Fe National Forest for hiking or horseback riding

Save Money with Flexible Catering & Bar Options

Unlike other venues, BHR allows you to choose your own catering, from food trucks to BBQs to formal sit-down dinners. You also control your own bar service, saving thousands compared to high-priced hotel liquor fees.

Additionally, BHR never charges resort fees, parking fees, gratuity, or food/beverage charges.

Extended Celebrations with No Cutoff Time

While most venues shut down events by 10 p.m., BHR allows you to party until 4 a.m. if you wish!

Affordable Packages & Flexible Payment Plans

• Choose from 3 or 5-night stays
• Option to include all glamping accommodations at a discounted rate
• 10% down payment (compared to the usual 25%)
• Single-day weekday events available

With our in-house invoicing program, we can directly bill anyone staying at the ranch, making lodging costs even more affordable.

No Wedding Planner Required

While some venues require a wedding planner, we do not. Instead, we provide a personal ranch concierge to help you save on catering, music, dance floors, and more by connecting you with trusted vendors.

Experience the Magic of Blame Her Ranch

BHR offers breathtaking views, ultimate relaxation, and an unforgettable wedding experience. Come visit us and see why we’re unlike any other venue!